Have you ever heard someone say, the “The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence?” It usually comes from some negative person who is unhappy with themselves. This person has no idea who they are or what their purpose in life is so they complain, blame and make excuses.
This will keep them from ever achieving anything significant in their life. Complaining, making excuses and living without goals makes you a loser instead of a winner. Happiness and success doesn’t depend on living where the grass is greener. It depends on you having the right attitude. You can make the best of anywhere. Millions of people are doing this everyday so why not you? Living in a perfect place would be great but what if you don’t? Do you just give up? Surrender to the circumstances? Refuse to try because you think life is better somewhere else?
You have to learn to be happy wherever you are. If you don’t, you will probably never be happy anywhere. Unhappiness will follow you wherever you go because you are the problem. Happiness is a choice. You decide to be happy. It’s that simple.
Negative thinking makes you believe people are always happier, more successful somewhere else. Don’t allow yourself to think this way. It’s not true.
You were born to be happy and great but you have to discover who you are to make this happen. You can’t blame and complain and expect to be happy or great. Get busy changing the way you think because that’s the real problem. Tell yourself, “I am where I am and I am going to make the best of it and me.”
Take the time to discover who you are and what you are good at or you will always fail. Life promotes winners who have the right attitude and thinking. There is no time or place in the life of a winner for laziness, self-pity and fantasizing. Get busy working on becoming the best YOU wherever you live.
When you discover who you are, what your purpose is and start setting goals, everything will begin to change for you. You will find happiness and success. Doors of opportunity will open up for you. You will become someone you have never been, doing things you never dreamed you could do.
The key to the future is in your hands not someone else’s. Decide to stop with the games and get serious. Find out who you are and what you are capable of becoming. Everything you want in life will be yours when you make the rest of your life the best of your life.